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Tagged by Jacq

Instructions: Remove 1 question from above, and add in your personal question, make it a total of 20 questions, then tag 8 people in your list, list them out at the end of this post. Notify them in their chat box that he/she has been tagged.

* lazy to change qn >_<> i know this tag thing has been goin on for a while but this is the first time i am replying to one mayb becuz i juz played laser tag :P and i am in the mood. i don't know how many times i'm being tagged tho...

1. Are you a cat or a dog person?

i am a Dog person and Dogs love me too :D

2. How many hours did you sleep the night before you fill in this tag?
9 hours. Cuz it'a a holiday

3. What's your favorite thing to do?
Streaming movie and series

4. Do you think money can buy happiness?
Yes, part of it.

5. If you can have 1 dream to come true, what would it be?
Be the greatest of what i want to be....

6. Do you believe you can survive without money?
NO..... duh.... reality has a great influence in my belief

7. What are you afraid to lose the most?
My loved ones and myself. (haha....jacq i copy u :P)

8. If you win $1 million, what would you do?
Put in bank to 升利息 so after 10 years it will be 2 million

9. If you meet someone that you love, would you confess to him/her?
i think love comes after successful confession (influence by Melmel)
so i rephrase the question again

If you meet someone that you like, would you confess to him/her?
i would love to but reality is that i wouldn't if it's too random....

10. List out 3 good points of the persons who tagged you -
Kind, Lovable, 38

11. What are the requirements that you wish from the other half?
Loving and kind, Confident (but not too over), Capable
sorry i 'm too greedy so i group loving and kind together..

12. What type of person do you hate the most?
still exploring who else can offend me.... the list is expanding

13. What is your ambition?
To graduate and be a great doctor that everyone loves
(but it's hard to please yourself and everyone)

14. If you can teleport once, where would you go?
HOME then buy air asia ticket back :P

15. What dramatic event(s) that you have ever encountered in your life?
my life will be the most boring movie in the world but i am glad to stay this way.

16. If you could undo doing one mistake in the past, what would it be?
cannot remember.....

17. If you have a chance, which part of your character would you like to change?
my straightforwardness and procastinating character

18. What music have you been listening to recently?
J pop, classical

19. What is your least favourite animal?
cockroach...

20. If one day you couldn't do the things that you are used to doing now anymore, how would you feel?
SUICIDAL ....scarry leh...

I now tag:
Imel
John
Joan
Steph
Alicia KSY
anyone who feel like being tagged by me

haha sorry i break the rules...but u r supposed to tag 8 person

I am BACK with love from Bro

This is an email from a significant someone.....(since i haven't found one outta familial bond)

1. First of all, in a conflict, never engage in "Childish" self defeating admission like "since I'am blur...." this will only make people impression of you regardless true/false of being "blur" to be more significant.

2.You just need to quote your sources to verify. That's it.

3. Do not use back the word of your aggresor like "BLUR" it only make matter worse.

4. Most important of all never ever say "i am going to save the conversation as proof.." this is the ultimate disaster. You are equivalent to black mailing the other party and have closed all doors for reconcilation. That explains the reaction.

5. You are what you think. "the sadity....does not respect her" is a loser mentality. Think that you are a Champion and you are going to show to the World that you can do it. You have worked v hard and passed the portfolio on 2nd attempt don't you!?

6. People come and go. Who cares what your batch mate think? After all when you join the work force, everything is back to square one.

7. Next time just hold yourself together. This are a series of bad moves that you should learn your lessons from my dear.

Bro

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altho it sounds like i am alot of fault....but i still really appreciate it.... at least it's constructive :D
straight forward in a constructive but not destructive way.... this is one lesson i have learnt very much from the encounter with my coursemate too. I have too may encounter with emotional terrorism...that made me down for a long time since i come to Australia..... 3 this year from the same person, 1 last year from another person.....each of which my confidence will plunge...each of which i have learnt a great deal that Oxford Clinical Handbook can't offer... ( It is an innate nature of a scorpio to remember such things....esp one who blogs)

This shows A bro who loves his sis....but how can you not love a sis who take this kind of photo for you?!!!

Eligible Bachelor surrounded by 2 scantily Clad "Chun" Chicks >_<

Here is my reply to him

dearie bro

wuay!!! i sent so many emails to u....now then u reply me
i thought u have no time to read my blog d. how r u doing back in spore?

haha, anyways
thanks so much for your advice and encouragement
really really appreciate it
it made my day

heart you

dearie sis

haha....i know gals tend to be abit more mushy than guys too...

I hope you guys can learn from this incident too....blessing from bro & sis love :P


PS: Thanks for those who offer encouragement & reassurance: Imelda, Anita, John, , YX , LCH.etc

I so muz let this out

YES, i so muz let this out else i can't sleep

juz have an unpleasant encounter with one of my coursemate
i shall be as impartial as possible in reiterating this

it started out as a msn conversation
i mentioned that i 'm doomed cuz the deadline for submission of assignment is in like 7 hours time and i have yet to finish it.

he was shocked because he thought that the deadline is one week later and ask me not to confuse him.

i mentioned to him that i have an instruction paper indicating that it is today. he was really angry and ask me not to confuse him with my blurness.

i ask him to double check with his gf who has done GP term before.
and since he has already completed his assignment what is the fuss about as he can just submit it anytime. but he is really annoyed by me telling him the wrong date ( i guess he really view this assignment very seriously). Somemore the date i mentioned is earlier not later. it's always better to be earlier than latter right!!!!

i said that since i'm blur so next time i wouldn't answer his question.

he said that he nv ask me.

i said even i told him something. he could have double check as i'm BLUR.

i said i'm sorry for causing the confusion. given the situation, it is my fault too but i still think he is too harsh..

he kept on reprimanding me....

i also replied in a light mode (if he doesn't get it) that if it really it's today then he owe me and i am goin to save the conversation as a proof.

guess wat?!!!
F**k off is the reply i got from him.

OMG....i got bullied again.... the sadity of being a transfer international student who failed her portfolio and her batchmate does not respect her....

anyway i'm still glad cuz the deadline is not today.... hopefully. This means i have more time to work on my assignment. :D

Angels in Fast Motion。。。 Nordkraft

This movie let me have a glimpse into the lives of drug addicts tho i heard of them quite often in hospital. Heard that they have plenty of them in psych ward

Beware some degree of nudity.


Ole Christian Madsen’s Angels in Fast Motion, adapted from Jacob Ejersbo’s novel. it is a gripping and brutal insight into the lives of three young adults, Maria, Allan and Steso, living and coming to terms with drugs, each other and life itself. the show brought us to an adrenalin-fuelled trip through bleak territory, with a jolt of humanity. The drug warrens of Copenhagen are hotbeds of addiction and desperation, teeming with souls in a mad search for salvation. I was hooked on this show as drug addiction is something so common yet i have no exposure in. (of course i have been a very good girl and movie is the outlet)


Maria is a drugs trafficker or pusher frau as she refers to herself, who goes to Jutland and picks up drugs for her boyfriend Asger, who is unable to give her the love and affection she needs. They live with two doped out dogs, large Rottwellers that are continuously high on the hash fumes and the stinking pig carcass that Asger is using for a tattoo canvas. Not exactly an ideal situation. A close encounter with authorities jolts Maria’s perspective on her life and she wants out. Maria falls for another dealer Hossein and her wish to quit the business is put aside while she follows her heart and finds love. To me, she is just falling into another ditch by loving another drug pusher.........


Allan an ex-drug smuggler turned-sailor returning home from a long stint overseas. Once home though his demons return to haunt him tempting him to do one last job.Allan was injured on board his ill fated ship and he returns home showing the scars from his accident, looking to just get on with life and not fall back into the old traps of the drug world he once inhabited, but some ghosts are harder to remove than others. And after a chance meeting with an old time ‘friend’, Frank (Rudi Köhnke), things are anything but safe. Meanwhile he found romance in a new girl and wish to turn his life around for her. This man has guts and he got away with what he does. This is the only character with a good ending.


Steso, an intellectual, god-forsaken and prophetic cynic has two bad habits, one being of the drug kind. The other is that he possesses his childhood girlfriend, Tilde , who has one foot in the psychiatric chair and the other in some dreamy state of yellow and karma. This guy is unique he reads widely while he did drugs. Tilde is trying to persuade Steso to quit drugs; a pastime he enjoys far too much. Daunted by the idea of life without drugs Steso’s refusal to give it all up forces Tilde to leave him. With no shoulder to lean on Steso’s world spirals further out of control. Steso must resist sinking back into his addiction or risk losing the girl he loves. He almost suceeded from his cold turkey. However, when he went back home and found no one there...something just trigger and he injected himself and it finally killed him.


These three lives are intertwined through Asger, the dealer. Maria does not want to make any more trips and that leads to the introduction of Hossein, a Persian moneylender who has more going on than what he lets on to, who is going to take on her role. Allan is forced into doing a job for Frank, of which he borrowed some money from Hossein, and Steso can’t get grip of loosing Tilde and wants to get some oblivion in the way of the pain.

Ole Christian Madsen gives us a stylish and grim movie with a soundtrack to die for, full of hyper camera moves and bouncing POV steadycams,emphasizing the moods in the scenes that truly makes us feel that we are as close to those hash fumes as those barking dogs are. The characters are great and very, very believable in their futile attempts to make sense of the madness in the world they inhabit and the mood is kept light enough that it does not become unbearably grim and too downbeat to alienate its viewers.

Up-close scenes of pupils dilating and needles being injected into veins are shocking but give further insight into the tragic and monotonously dull lives of these twenty-somethings. Excellent handy cam shots accompanied by a funky soundtrack give reprieve from the tragic lives of these fragile human beings and their painful addiction to drugs.

the characters are really convincing. their desires are all so simple. it just that they headed in a different direction that it is hard to turn back... Mayb they are just stereotype...but who cares.... >_<

adapted from various sources eg. monstercritics.com, jaman.com & myself

Hong Lim's Sydney Trip

29 May - 31 May 2009
We never expected to meet up in Sydney at all 2 years ago in IMU library..... That's life....lotsa uncertainties...