1. First of all, in a conflict, never engage in "Childish" self defeating admission like "since I'am blur...." this will only make people impression of you regardless true/false of being "blur" to be more significant.
2.You just need to quote your sources to verify. That's it.
3. Do not use back the word of your aggresor like "BLUR" it only make matter worse.
4. Most important of all never ever say "i am going to save the conversation as proof.." this is the ultimate disaster. You are equivalent to black mailing the other party and have closed all doors for reconcilation. That explains the reaction.
5. You are what you think. "the sadity....does not respect her" is a loser mentality. Think that you are a Champion and you are going to show to the World that you can do it. You have worked v hard and passed the portfolio on 2nd attempt don't you!?
6. People come and go. Who cares what your batch mate think? After all when you join the work force, everything is back to square one.
7. Next time just hold yourself together. This are a series of bad moves that you should learn your lessons from my dear.
Bro
************************************************************************************altho it sounds like i am alot of fault....but i still really appreciate it.... at least it's constructive :D
straight forward in a constructive but not destructive way.... this is one lesson i have learnt very much from the encounter with my coursemate too. I have too may encounter with emotional terrorism...that made me down for a long time since i come to Australia..... 3 this year from the same person, 1 last year from another person.....each of which my confidence will plunge...each of which i have learnt a great deal that Oxford Clinical Handbook can't offer... ( It is an innate nature of a scorpio to remember such things....esp one who blogs)
This shows A bro who loves his sis....but how can you not love a sis who take this kind of photo for you?!!!
Here is my reply to him
dearie bro
wuay!!! i sent so many emails to u....now then u reply me
i thought u have no time to read my blog d. how r u doing back in spore?
haha, anyways
thanks so much for your advice and encouragement
really really appreciate it
it made my day
heart you
dearie sis
haha....i know gals tend to be abit more mushy than guys too...
I hope you guys can learn from this incident too....blessing from bro & sis love :P
PS: Thanks for those who offer encouragement & reassurance: Imelda, Anita, John, , YX , LCH.etc
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