Molly

I am glad that summer is coming so that i can bring her out more often now.
Yesteray she was in pretty crook mood. didn't wanna talk or watsoever
saying that she wanna die....

so i juz brought her to the sun, did her nails.etc

previous time it was a better experience as she was in a brighter mood, and don't want me to leave. it's always fluctuating huh - shld have stayed longer then.

Kate was right, previously i felt that there were very few things i could do with her. but Kate told me that it is the quality time. not quantity. Many people will juz pass by and say hello but no one will actually pay one to one attention to her. haha, doing her nails provides tactile stimulation to her, bringing her out to the sun give her strong bones ( the folks seldom go out as it's juz very hard for the nursing staff to cope while they are outdoor ) :D at the same time i can practise my manicure skills :D. Ironically, my nails are not polished. too troublesome for someone like me - have to wash hand so often, have to carry heavy groceries.etc. definitely very hard to maintain :(

aren't they pretty :D
recipe is Sally Hansen Diamond Strength Diamond SHINE Base & Top Coat + Rimmel London 60 Seconds Vinyl Shine Euphoria

occasionally i will change the Vinyl Shine Euphoria to Manicare French Pink.
i think old folks prefer those lipstick bright red color....but then still gotta finish what i bot first.
haha my crash visit to the manicure bar has definitely come in handy now
still think Opi Nail Polish is the BEST !!!

Nov 14 will be her 100th birthday. She is like 100 years and 5 days older than me. :) party at 2:30pm, there will be msg from the queen of England for her. looking forward to the party. no wonder Molly was saying something about the Queen coming and what should she wear and what should she said. i thought she was remembering the past or mayb she did hallucinate. Sister was asking me do i know her niece. Apparently they can't contact any of her relatives. :(, not even the son. rumour is that the son is in nursing home too :S

One interesting thing happened before that. while Molly was having her hair done,i brought another resident around the corridor. she is always in crook mood, agitated, irritatble and CRANKY. I wanna bring her to balcony, she held on to the door and refuse. OK FINE, so i closed the door. Without warning she smacked me on the butt twice and called me a slut ::(... haha if this come from a normal person i will slap the person back. LOL. well i was amused. then she kept telling passer by that i kidnap her and i'm a bad girl.... kept calling out for help. but the people are juz used to her being lidat. haha
luckily Molly is not like that. :D

The Train Story

The train man...

Human is still the most trustable being in some aspects...

Seatless compartment

this picture was taken in a standing position.... prolly not becuz the photographer thinks that this angle is better. in fact this pic is better if it's taken from a lower level...

i think the photographer feels the same as the more dress up lady on the right.... they all have the consensus that the floor is too dirty to be seated :P
or if you wanna think in a more pessimistic way is that they are too posh to put themselve down to the same "level" as others
without seat doesn't mean it's not good. u can sleep without "fishing" all da time (yx can tell u about that), you can lay a newspaper infront of you and peel the pees w/o bending under the seat to pick up the fallen peas. you can juz pile all ur belongings/crops into a mountain. infact seatless is more practical in this situation.

haha....i think i have fallen prey to the general population of photographers who like to shoot the poverty and sufferings of people....and display in a gallery and let urban audiences exlaim in awe how beautifully exotic & emotional the pictures are and then claim the prize of some photography contest. Something is juz not right here....

Colour Blindness

I think this hand belongs to X'tine, the baby was random :D
haha mayb the mom was dozing off at the back while the baby was playing with some stranger who was potentially a paedophile.
Jokes andHygiene aside, this is a beautiful picture
I like how the toddler is like a little cub that is unaware of the potential danger lurking around,
accepting love from someone. (you don't see that often in paeds ward, the kids are always too alarmed *_*)

or we can say that this kid is "colorblinded", expanding from this
so is being racist =being too alarmed/aware? afraid that the other more superior/inferior race may jeopardise your current status/safety? if not, why people bother to be racist at all.... it's all back to the explanation of personal benefit.

i am not a political social science student so this is certainly not my forte and definitely no publishable analysis here..... but these are the small little things that you come ax so often in life. Thus the name: University of Society. 社会大学 Everyone is the undergraduate :D learning to be a better person day by day.
and there is the constant exam/test/tutorial but never a graduation ceremony *_*(luckily MBBS is not like that else i'll pengsan- we need a pitstop somehow, isn't it?!)

the ColourBlindness of young kids
this Nationalistic Commercial for malaysia national day tries to bring across the message to the adults who has too much historical societal burden on them. i just think it's ironic altogether as things are neva that simple.....



This is what you called propaganda..... >_< Nevertheless it's still a cute commercial

People Relation Case Scenarios

Case Scenario 1- Judgemental ?!

Over dinner, A made a remark that becuz B told A his unpleasant experiences with C. it sorta affect A's judgement towards C and even had hindered his interaction with C but in actual fact as time goes by A realised C is not as bad as what B depicted him as

B explained that he juz wanna share his true experience with A so that A will be aware of things around. B chose to share his experience openly to A reason being he considered A as a long time friend. However, now B is guilty about what he did and if he knew it would have such repercussion - he would choose not to say anything instead.

B also tried to explain to A that people tend to have different experience towards a same individual giving a very good eg of their experiences with P, so that similar situation would not happen next time.

Case Scenario 2 - Overpowering

Sometime go, D has told Z about Y being too overpowering by snatching up opportunities (too domineering in short). Z was quite upset that D told him that now Z is the one too overpowering in the current projectwork. Z didn't expect himself to becoming like Y.

Z didn't reply to D on the spot when the remark was made as he felt that he was not in a coherent mind to reply and he may not give an answer that he actually meant. the conversation could turn heaty anytime. Z already realised the problem beforehand but as he had done a similar project. THus he felt a strong urge to take a leading role and improve on the current project.

Case Scenario 3 - Inconsideration

G mentioned that J has not been getting along well with quite a few people.
both of them have quite different point of view towards dealing with people

J: it's hard to please everyone so he rather please himself to make life easier for himself
G: prefers to please others, and he will be happy when others are happy even that means he has to swallow whatever shit that comes to him.

G: will consider the other's feelings when doing something in the sense that "what would himself feel if other pple treat him this way" while J tries too hard to not losing out. he oso thinks that J wants reciprocal treatment: eg when he treat someone nicely he would expect the same thing back.

J: agrees with G about feeling for others and didn't realise he appeared to be too straightfoward and inconsiderate to G. and lastly who the hell like losing out and don't like reciprocal treatment.

J think that G may not know him well enuf to pass a judgement like that.

so is J too stubborn in this case? or is G too judgemental?
who do you agree with? or disagree with.

What do you think of each of these characters? Have similar scenarios happenned to you before? do you have a solution to them? welcome any input :D

人。物。事。

老家

小Y头回到外婆家，万事都新奇

古旧的木屋，斑驳的墙板，热烘烘的锌片屋顶

周围是比她还老的香蕉树，红毛丹树

午饭了，舅舅带着她在那粗糙的洋灰洗手盆

用那在不远处瀑布所引来的天然泉水洗手

这一切一切与高级公寓就是不同

陌生却又无比亲切

天真无知的她只是这间木屋的过客

一年来去用十只指头算一算都搓搓有余

再加上她还没发育完全的前脑

理所当然

她没能了解这里存载着妈妈舅舅的儿时记忆

也无法了解外婆的伟大

外婆的渐渐离去，是妈妈舅舅得面对的悲痛过程

也成了女孩不知觉的遗憾

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不变的辛勤

她的民族， 以辛勤为名，以辛勤而活

来到异乡的她，这刻苦的特征仍显露无遗

在艳阳下的她散发着如此灿烂的活力与快乐

这独特的气质是如千金小姐， 时时躲避大太阳的我无可比拟的

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似近非近

人前如此恩爱，却又不知觉的貌合神离

也难怪他们的背景悬殊

连大自然都好像特意的嘲笑他们

让两棵大树中间隔了一条干瘸土路

还好他们还年轻，时间选择不缺

错了一次能再重来

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酷就是魅

坐在一棵倒下枯死的树桐，专注的用他的SLR 捕捉大自然与人的沟通

被迎风起乱的茅草包围着的他，此刻静止的气质深深地吸引着我

让我忍不住拍下了时间为他停止的这一刻

哈哈， 他万万没想到他摄猎者也有这一天吧

他的人就如此画，沉着，就是俗人所说的酷

他越酷，我就越发想多认识他，想把他的脑袋里的一切给挖出来

认真的男人是最有魅力的. 我四肢举起同意 ^0^

小情歌 little Love song

Random Couple Strolling Along one of the Sabah beach, towards the sunset 2006
wonder how are they now.................

這是一首簡單的小情歌
唱著人們心腸的曲折
我想我很快樂　當有你的溫熱　腳邊的空氣轉了

這是一首簡單的小情歌
唱著我們心頭的白鴿
我想我很適合　當一個歌頌者　青春在風中飄著
你知道　就算大雨讓整座城市顛倒　我會給你懷抱
受不了　看見你背影來到
寫下我　度秒如年難捱的離騷
就算整個世界被寂寞綁票　我也不會奔跑
逃不了　最後誰也都蒼老
寫下我　時間和琴聲交錯的城堡

你知道　就算大雨讓整座城市顛倒　我會給你懷抱
受不了　看見你背影來到
寫下我　度秒如年難捱的離騷
就算整個世界被寂寞綁票　我也不會奔跑
最後誰也都蒼老　寫下我
時間和琴聲交錯　的城堡

~ by 蘇打綠 Sodagreen