Over dinner, A made a remark that becuz B told A his unpleasant experiences with C. it sorta affect A's judgement towards C and even had hindered his interaction with C but in actual fact as time goes by A realised C is not as bad as what B depicted him as
B explained that he juz wanna share his true experience with A so that A will be aware of things around. B chose to share his experience openly to A reason being he considered A as a long time friend. However, now B is guilty about what he did and if he knew it would have such repercussion - he would choose not to say anything instead.
B also tried to explain to A that people tend to have different experience towards a same individual giving a very good eg of their experiences with P, so that similar situation would not happen next time.
Case Scenario 2 - Overpowering
Sometime go, D has told Z about Y being too overpowering by snatching up opportunities (too domineering in short). Z was quite upset that D told him that now Z is the one too overpowering in the current projectwork. Z didn't expect himself to becoming like Y.Z didn't reply to D on the spot when the remark was made as he felt that he was not in a coherent mind to reply and he may not give an answer that he actually meant. the conversation could turn heaty anytime. Z already realised the problem beforehand but as he had done a similar project. THus he felt a strong urge to take a leading role and improve on the current project.
Case Scenario 3 - Inconsideration
G mentioned that J has not been getting along well with quite a few people.both of them have quite different point of view towards dealing with people
J: it's hard to please everyone so he rather please himself to make life easier for himself
G: prefers to please others, and he will be happy when others are happy even that means he has to swallow whatever shit that comes to him.
G: will consider the other's feelings when doing something in the sense that "what would himself feel if other pple treat him this way" while J tries too hard to not losing out. he oso thinks that J wants reciprocal treatment: eg when he treat someone nicely he would expect the same thing back.
J: agrees with G about feeling for others and didn't realise he appeared to be too straightfoward and inconsiderate to G. and lastly who the hell like losing out and don't like reciprocal treatment.
J think that G may not know him well enuf to pass a judgement like that.
so is J too stubborn in this case? or is G too judgemental?
who do you agree with? or disagree with.
What do you think of each of these characters? Have similar scenarios happenned to you before? do you have a solution to them? welcome any input :D
2 comments:
I think everyone has too many letters and are too emo already.
haha
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